Don’t measure your success as a youth sports coach in medals . . .
OR trophies, OR titles, OR premierships, or whatever is relevant in your particular sport.
Doing so will lead you down the wrong path with HOW and WHAT you coach.
Youth coaches who focus primarily on medals as their measure of success are doing the kids a disservice as their coaching will be flawed. Their coaching will be short-sighted and possibly contain content that is inappropriate for the development stage of the athletes.
Using medals to measure success is doing a disservice to the kids.
Focusing on medals will also send the wrong message to the kids. The kids will be influenced by the coach’s lead. If the coach’s main focus is on wins and medals and trophies, the kids may start to believe that those are what are important.
But it is well-known that these external rewards don’t sustain motivation. A love of sport does. Therefore we need to teach kids to love the sport more than the medals. We start doing this by “walking the talk” ourselves.
Teach kids to love the sport more than the medals.
Finally, I don’t believe that winning, by itself, is necessarily a sign of good youth sports coaching. There is no skill involved in training a kid “into the ground” just to get a grab at a medal. Also, coaches can’t take a lot of credit if the “winning” kid that they coach is simply bigger and stronger than others, which is a common factor in competitive youth sports “success”.
Winning is not necessarily a sign of good youth sports coaching.
Therefore, coaches of young athletes should measure their success in other ways.
I believe that the best indicator of grass roots coaching success is that the kids keep coming back.
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Darren Wensor is a sports development professional, coach educator, specialist coach of young athletes and founder of the blog coachingyoungathletes.com. Learn more about him here and connect with him on Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin, Anchor or via email.